Is there such thing as TOO sexy?

As most women are acutely aware, valentines is right around the corner--gasp! I happen to be on an online shopping rampage for lingerie yesterday when I realized something. Why is that when you type "lingerie" in the search engine you nearly get bombarded with a slew of porn-star costumed clad women? Is that really what lingerie has come to and is Victoria Secret truly the only place to find tasteful lingerie? Which by the way, most of their lingerie is close to $100 a pop. I could be totally off base here with this whole lingerie thing but in my mind it seems like a guy wants something to take off not get tangled up in??

I found some pretty intense get-ups which shouldn't shock me (To each his own) but that's just not my style. I have had a super hard time finding lingerie that is pretty-ish and sexy that says I'm trying to initiate romance not S&M (no offense to anyone that is!). Here are some looks I scrounged up, if you're like me and looking for lingerie more on the traditional side.

What is sexier than side ties? here

matching bralette here

Adorable and available in tons of colors too! here

F21 Lingerie is proof sexy doesn't come with a price tag. Here

Sweet and Simple here.

Girly and playful here.

Vintage vixen here.